Must Read: How 3 Girls Fought Over 1 Guy (A Tale)

Episode 7 years ago

Must Read: How 3 Girls Fought Over 1 Guy (A Tale)

I slept blissfully that night, dreaming that me and my babe where doing stuffs, I did not know that my babe was also dreaming at that moment, she was dreaming about the best way to castrate me!.

Unfortunately for me, I would have solved the false info if only I had decided to see toke the next day.

At this moment I will admit my fault, and before you girls start blaming me, plus hear me out.

You(grownups) know that when young people(16-21 years of age) are in a relationship, they do not fully understand the term “relationship”, they mostly follow what other youths do, their emotions and physical actractions. They think it’s called love, but grownups know it’s not.

I really like toke, she is my babe, but that next day , and for some days afterward, the main reason I wanted to see her for was not to jist, not to see each other faces, but for S£x. Since I know that I’ll have to wait till her period is over before venturing into such, it greatly affected my need to see her. If I had known that their was trouble brewing, I would not have stayed away from her physically till the next week. so before you start talking, think about the things you did back then.

I called her like three times between the time David told mercy about ekaite and the next week( I think it’s like 5 days), on each occasion, she was not enthusiastic about jisting with me, I felt it was the cramps still disturbing her. This was how things were until Monday morning when I came back to campus.

Monday evening, I went to her hostel, we talked but I noticed she is was not really into it, she preferred talking to her roomates.

After a while, I left and she did not even say goodbye.

The same thing happened on Tuesday, it was even worse. toke can love you completely, she is 100% loyal, she can do anything for her guy, but if you hurt her, she will hate or dislike you completely depending on the kind of relationship you had with her before you hurt her.

In this case , Ive done nothing wrong, I also did not know what is happening, I felt her behavior was based on the S£x issue, “if she does not want to have S£x with me, she should just tell me na” I thought.

This thinking of mine made it worse on Wednesday as I expressed my frustration at her behavior, as expected, things did not go well, we started with angry words until it degenerated to nasty words. We said nasty things to each other to the extent that we both felt the relationship had ended.

I walked out of her room, after like an hour in my room, I decided to call mercy,I had planned to cut mercy off from details about me and toke, but at this moment, I think I needed her.

She told me where she is, she was even close by. I went to meet her, and she too was cold to me.
me:” wats up with toke”
mercy :” what are you talking about?”
me:” she is behaving somehow”
mercy:”you’ve started anti, how can you say someone is behaving somehow, don’t you know what that means?, my friend has not gone loko o, in fact she is presently using her head”

I ignored her remarks and went into detail about what has been going on between I and toke for the past one week. It was after my whole explanation that she said :
mercy: ” who is that girl that you brought into David’s room that day?”
me: ” David’s room?, I’ve never brought any girl into David’s room before?”
mercy: (standing up, wanting to walk away angrilly)” if I’ve known you are like this, I would not have allowed toke to date you”
me: (also angry but holding her hands to prevent her from walking away)” see mercy, I’m anti, I know I do things sometimes that look stupid, but you know that, you also know that i wunt change because of you guys, if you feel my behavior is not good enough for you and toke, no problem, you can tell me to f**k off. But I’m still anti and will always be antispexish.
mercy: “I don’t know what you are saying, but I know that what you are doing is not good, you just don’t go about playING with someone’s emotion like that, you boys are all the same”
me: (still shouting): ” what the f**k are you saying”
mercy: (shouting back)” don’t shout at me, you think your noise will not make me say the truth, guys like you are bad”
she removed her hands from mine and walked away, at that point i decided that my friendship with mercy and relationship with toke is over, it’s not good to like girls too much.


Friday evening, ade was with toke outside our hostel when I walked by, since she was with a shuttle bag, I figured she was coming back from class. I greeted ade but me and toke acted as we did not know each other, later that night, as we were playing soccer, david was also in the room when ade asked me.
ade: “anti, you and toke no dey again?”
me:” Bro , na so we see am o, she just begin misbehave suddenly”
ade:” you suppose just tell her say no be you the girl find come na, I know say she for believe you”
Note, earlier when aDe saw that I did not talk to toke , he had asked her what happened and she had told him everything, another lesson learnt, your girlfriend wunt tell you everything, there are some things her friends will know and you will never know till the day you peme!
me: (looking very confused, I even had to pause the game)” which girl find me come?”
ade: “so you no know, ask am na” (pointing at David)
David did not say anything so I asked ade
me: ” a beg which girl find me come na”
ade: “ekaite na”
me: (for some seconds I could not recollect knowing any ekaite, but on realising who the ekaite is)” wetin!, no be him she dey find come” (pointing at david)
ade : ” ask him”(pointing at ade)
me:” David, no be you the girl dey find come?”
david: ” yes”
ade: ” wrong question, the right question be say who tell those girls say na you ekaite find come”

I waited for David to answer, my blood was boiling cus I’m was begining to realise what went Down. David did not say anything.
ade:” come, unpause this game my friend, if you no wan play again stand up” (he snatched my pad and unpaused the game and threw the pad back at me)”after you fit go tell them say no be you they carry ekaite come f**k for this room”

Instantly I was on my feet, the speed I used to stand up caused everone to look at me .”


All this nonsense must stop this night, this girls must know what is going” I said as I stormed out of the room!
“where you dey go” shouted ade. “to ****hostel and then to **** hostel”

As I stormed out out the room I noticed david scrambling after me, did he stop me?